Although the names and variations of this caramel cake are as broad as Pink’s hair color, the dessert has been a family tradition for some people for so long they can’t imagine there are people trying it for the first time. For me, it was only a few years ago. My friend, Caitlin O., shared it with us at work and even though I was “cake reluctant,” I slid my fork in and with one sticky bite I was hoping not everyone in the department knew we had cake = more for me.
The recipe graces pages of community cookbooks, from fundraisers, employee-submitted, family heritage, etc., but to find Better Than Sex Cake in a church ladies cookbook, you’ll likely find it under a discreet name like Better Than Anything (or Almost Anything) Cake, Better Than Whatever you Wanna Call It Cake, or Heath Cake.
I know, I know – some of you have been reading my blog long enough to know I don’t like cake. Especially the kind you poke holes in and pour in Jell-O or pudding. But this is different. It’s sweetened condensed milk and caramel. You use your favorite caramel ice cream topping. (Like the butterscotch one I drink from a shot glass when I make Chocolate Explosion Cheesecake.) Are you with me?
Will this be your first time eating Better Than Sex Cake? Do you have a different name for it?
Sweet caramel wishes,
Better Than Sex Cake
- 1 box (13 x 9-inch pan size) German chocolate cake mix, and ingredients to bake the cake
- 1 can (14-ounce) sweetened condensed milk
- 1 jar (approximately 17 ounces or so) caramel ice cream topping, I use Mrs. Richardson's Caramel Butterscotch
- 1 tub (8-ounce) whipped topping, thawed
- 1 package (8-ounce) chocolate toffee pieces (I use Hershey's Heath Milk Chocolate Toffee Bits)
Bake the cake according to package directions.
As soon as the cake is done, pull it out of the oven and poke holes in the cake with the handle of a mixing spoon. (I use a long-handled lemonade-stirring spoon.) Immediately pour the sweetened condensed milk evenly over the cake and repeat with the caramel topping.
Let the cake cool in the refrigerator until completely cool. Top with whipped topping and put back in the fridge. Immediately before serving, generously sprinkle the toffee bits on each slice. Store in the refrigerator.
Plan to share this cake because it's best within 24 hours.